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I know I’m going to get some immature answers but here it goes…

So, I am a young “Wiccan seeker” and I believe my mother may be on to my studies. I constantly close and minimize websites when she walks into the room (Wiccan sites of coarse). I just say that she scared me and that I closed the site. (Which is not a lie…technically)

And she has walked in on me TWICE when I was reading the Scott Cunningham “A Guide For The Solitary Practitioner” review on the web.

Anyway, so I think that sooner or later she will question these suspicious actions. Either that, or im just going to says what is really going on…(I don’t like to lie to my parents…)

So…
Question 1.) What do I say when she asks me “What exactly is Wicca??”…I know what it is, but It’s hard to put into understandable words for people who don’t know what it is. “What is it? Who do you worship? what do you believe?”….I don’t want to end up saying…”that’s a little complicated.” I don’t want to sound….”uneducated” (If I don’t already)

Question 2.)Do I say that I am a Wiccan, or do I say that I am a Wiccan seeker? Either way she won’t mind, I just need to know what to properly title myself as.

Thanks to those who will take this seriously! =)
P.S
I might post this twice to be double sure.
I have been studying Wicca for a while, and I am sure I want to be Wiccan…If that means anything =)

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By: ♥ Muslimah Sophie

To the point:My husbands brother’s kids are out of control.They are 6 and 4 boys they also have a 2 month old boy as well.We go to Sunday dinner weekly at my husbands parents house.Lately their have been behavior issues with the boys(common I know)but the issue is everyone sees issue but parents.The boys bite,slap,trip,pull pants down,call names like jerk for instance just about anything you can imagine to get one another,Now I understand sibling rivalry but they get pretty serious cause behavior is not corrected.I am now noticing that the older of the two is getting aggressive with our 3 year old daughter.He never displays in front of my husband but after dinner when the men go to talk tools,sports or whatever,the women stay at table with kids and do games,coloring etc.Things he does is yelling at her if she touching anything he has claimed,he snatches what she claims first just because,My daughter likes to walk and eat for some reason he will take desert/sweet item she has left behind.I know these thing sound minor but my concern is,how to express this enrages me without causing riff in family?Their mom can be right there and she says calmly give it back let her see but never pays enough attention to see item not returned to my baby.My daughter does not cry often when this happens but she’s getting older and it will matter soon I’m sure?How do I tell them my concerns without coming off as questioning their parenting?(I do but not my place)How to not imply kids are totally out of control and undisciplined?I understand my choice of words will dictate the end result.If I come off abrasive and they get defended the situation is screwed.Poor grandma and grandpa will just be in the room quietly awaiting the end result.
Thanks for the good answers.I was very skeptical.I have never had to deal with anything like this she’s home with me but she’s considerate when in play group.I’m just nervous I have seen parents get way out of control when they think they parenting is questioned or child is labeled.We’ll see what next Sun. brings.sigh….

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I have been living with my parents since my divorce in 2003. My parents suggested me and my kids live with them, considering the way my ex done. I love my parents, but I am ready to get a house of our own. It is a 2 bedroom house with 1 and a 1/2 bath. It is not big enough and when the children get older(boy is 7 and girl is 5) they are going to want their privacy. Please give me any kind of suggestions you might have.

By: Vanilla

i mean- you can just ask your kids what they are doing. i think it is wrong. i think parents really shouldnt check chatrooms and e-mails because they are private sometimes. just think… parents wouldnt want people seeing what they are doing whenever they are on the computer!

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For example,
Are they allowed to have jobs? Get their license (I’m assuming no, since they don’t have their real parents to sign for them…)? Be at home alone without their foster parent(s)? Are there curfews or other certains rules that apply to foster children?

Anything helps. Thank you!

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The 12 yr old girl constantly sits in her room by herself like prison & keeps all her thoughts to herself. One day her 10 yr old sister ask her “what are you thinking about?” She said “nothing.” Her sister said “You can tell me.” She told her sister what she was thinking at the moment. She was thinking that one day, she would have alot of money, be very smart & independent, live in a mansion far away from home without her parents and sister. Her 10 yr old sister got upset and cried because she feel that her older sister don’t love her. When their parents came home, the 10 yr old told them when the 12 yr old was thinking. The parents got upset & said to the 12 yr old “you are a rebellious child because you are wrong for thinking those things.” The 12 yr old said “it was just a thought and my dreams.” She feel her sister and parents were unreasonable and regret for telling her sister about her thought. She cried for days because of that. Why are her parents & sister that way?

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Im in the uk up north, i would be advertising to people who work alot and dont have the time.

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